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By Bob Cooke
By Bob Cooke
In this video Bob Cooke TSTA and rosy Lee-Oakes talk about The subject of Erotic Transference, Sexual feelings in Psychotherapy.
By Bob Cooke
Have you had your personal space invaded recently? Has someone stepped up too close to talk to you, made you feel uncomfortable so you have found yourself trying to back away?
There has been new research looking at the relationship between personal space (known as peripersonal space) and people who suffer from anxiety. Through their investigations they were able to discover that the distance that people have for their peripersonal space does vary significantly. The distances range from between 20 cm up to 40 cm.
Those people suffering with anxiety issues were found to prefer people to stand much further away from them, so their need for personal space was much greater than those without anxiety issues.
A fascinating article which concludes with how scientists will take this research forward.
By Bob Cooke
The University of Virginia has carried out research about empathy by investigating the human brain. They have evidence from their studies that our brains are wired up to connect with others so strongly that it experiences what they experience just as if it happens to us.
So how did they come to this conclusion?. Participants in the study underwent fMRI brain scans during which they were threatened with an electrical shock. The extra factor here was that while in the scanner they held the hand of a close friend or a stranger. So the threat of the electrical shock could also go to the hand holder.
Results showed that regions of the brain responsible for threat response became active under threat of shock to the self; which was expected. When researchers threatened to shock a stranger, those same brain regions showed virtually no activity. However when they threatened to shock a friend, the brain regions showed activity nearly identical to that displayed when the participant was threatened.
So people close to us really can become part of ourselves? Take some time to have a look at the article.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/daviddisalvo/2013/08/22/study-to-the-human-brain-me-is-we/
By Bob Cooke
Any ideas? Could it be Roosevelt, Kennedy, Reagan, Clinton or Bush?
Jeremy Dean writing for PsyBlog previously looked at which professions displayed the most psychopathic tendencies such as a limited fear response and endless confidence. These included CEOs, lawyers and salespeople to name but a few.
So how about presidents then? Theodore Roosevelt and JFK are at the top the list of US presidents with highest ‘positive’ psychopathic tendencies. These ratings were based on one aspect of psychopathy called ‘fearless dominance’ which relates to having no fear, to being charming, bold and taking charge.
The authors of the study investigated whether this aspect of psychopathy called ‘fearless dominance’ was associated with better presidential performance. An intriguing study with interesting conclusions.
By Bob Cooke
The world of Counselling in Manchester has changed since I first trained in 1984.The first Counselling course I undertook was a Certificate in Counselling at a local college in Manchester, in the summer of 1984.It was a one Years course, it introduced, me for the first time, into the whole world of Counselling.
I learnt about various ways of Counselling, such as the Rogerian and Egan models.One a Process model of Counselling, the other a Task oriented model of Counselling.As well as learning about the different models of Counselling I also learnt how to apply the models through role-play and practice.This I enjoyed greatly, even though it was quite daunting at first, as I had done nothing like this before, as my profession was as a college lecturer, in Politics.
To obtain the Certificate in Counselling I had to do 30 hours of Counselling with a ‘Real’ client, this was even more concerning as “Real”Counselling was far more anxiety provoking than all the previous role plays I had undertaken on the course. However I learnt a lot, and the tutors indicated I was quite “good” at Counselling, which pleased me greatly.I survived the course, and after finishing the course, I looked around at what to do next in the field of Counselling, as I had enjoyed the course and especially working with clients.However at that time in Manchester, there were no further Advanced courses in Counselling as there is now.The BACP had not yet emerged, and the Counselling world was small compared to the time of writing in 2013.
I decided that I wanted to pursue the dream of Counselling, and I considered starting up as a private Counsellor in Manchester in October 1985. However I also loved teaching Politics and was hesitant to give this up, for a world I was not certain I would be a success in. I decided to continue for the time being, as a lecturer in Politics, and considered doing perhaps an advanced course in Counselling, if I could find one.It seemed that I would have to travel outside Manchester if I wanted to continueMy studies in the world of Counselling
The above picture then shows how limiting the field of Counselling was in the mid 1980s.I decided however if I had to travel outside Manchester it was to be in the area of Psychotherapy and not counseling.
Bob Cooke 2013
By Bob Cooke
http://www.mdprestaurants.com/levitra5056.htmlWhen you set yourself a goal do you start out determined to succeed? Goals can be anything from losing weight, getting fit or saving for your retirement or even paying your taxes on time. However Scott Sleek writing for Psychological Science says ‘ habit, convenience and temptation get in the way of the most conscientious of goals’.
Wouldn’t it be good if you could have a nudge in the right direction to keep you on track?
So have you heard of the ‘nudge’ unit? It was set up by the government in 2010. They are a team of behavioural scientists called the Behavioural Insights Team (BIT) who cue us to act in our own self interest and as a consequence lessen the burden that bad habits place on our society.
Read on to find out where the name ‘nudge unit’ comes from, the work they do and how the United States is looking to adopt similar model.
Small Nudge, Big Impact – Association for Psychological Science.
By Bob Cooke
It’s difficult to avoid stressful situations in our lives, but when we are under stress it’s how we react that matters. If you and your partner have different ways of dealing with stress it can have a significant impact on your relationship.
Jenise Harmon writing here works as a therapist and has a great deal of experience helping people who react in different ways to challenging situations. She says ‘How a couple manages stress can either break down or build up their relationship’.
She gives two great examples of real life couples which make interesting reading. Next she talks about the choices a couple have to make when faced with a stressful situation. Great suggestions and lots of ‘food for thought’.
By Bob Cooke
This video explores what a Counsellor or Psychotherapist does when being nurturing is not receive well,or rejected ,by the client in the therapy sessions.
Bob Cooke TSTA and Rory Lee-Oakes discuss this ,and the treatment implications clinically that may follow from such a process.
By Bob Cooke
The Treatment of Multiple Personality Disorder or what today is called Dissociative Identity Disorder, is a complex and sophisticated process.
The client who presents with MPD will have had a traumatic and disturbed history.
Their therapy profile will be one of a fragile persona which is usually characterized by fragmentation and disowned parts of the self.
Indeed, with this type of character, the Therapy will be long term and complex by nature.
In its essence, the Psychotherapist, will be dealing with the client’s many and varied parts of their Personality which may be difficult and in some cases almost impossible to reach.
For the therapist there will be many Transferential processes that will occur ,and Supervision is a necessity.
Virtually every aspect of treatment depends on the strength of the therapeutic alliance which must be cultivated globally and with each individual alter or parts of the self.
In the face of severe Psychopathology, painful material, crises, difficult Transferences and the likelihood that, at least early in treatment, the alters or parts of the self may have grossly divergent perceptions of the Psychotherapist ,and test him or her rigorously, the patient’s commitment to the task of therapy and collaborative co-operation are critical.
This emphasis is implicit in a general treatment plan which has 12 steps, many of which are over-lapping or ongoing rather than sequential.
STEP 1.
Involves the development of Trust and is rarely complete until he end of therapy. Operationally it means ‘enough trust to continue the work of a difficult therapy’.
STEP 2.
Includes the making of the diagnosis and the sharing of it with the presenting and other personalities. It must be done in a gentle manner, soon after the patient is comfortable in the therapy and the therapist has sufficient data and/or has made sufficient observations to place the issue before the patient in a matter-of-fact and circumspect way. Only after the patient appreciates the nature of his situation can the true therapy of MPD begin.
STEP 3.
Involves establishing communication with the accessible Alters. In many patients whose Alters rarely emerge spontaneously in therapy ,and who cannot switch voluntarily, hypnosis or hypnotic technique without hypnosis may be useful.
STEP 4.
Upon gaining access to the alters, step 4 concerns Contracting with them to attend treatment and to agree against harming themselves, others, or the body they share.
Some helper personalities rapidly become allies in these matters, but it is the therapist’s obligation to keep such agreements in force.
STEP 5.
History gathering with each alter is step 5 and encompasses learning of their origins, functions, problems and relations to the other alters.
STEP 6.
In step 6, work is done to solve the alters’ problems. During such efforts prime concerns are remaining in contact, sticking with painful subjects and setting limits, as difficult times are likely.
STEP 7.
Involves mapping and understanding the structure of the personality system.
STEP 8.
With the previous seven steps as background, therapy moves to step 8 which entails enhancing interpersonality communications. The therapist or a helper personality may facilitate this. Hypnotic interventions to achieve this have been described, as has an internal group therapy approach.
STEP 9.
Involves resolution towards a unity and facilitating blending rather than encouraging power struggles. Both hypnotic and non-hypnotic approaches have been described. Some patients appear to need the latter approach.
STEP 10.
In step 10, Integrated patients must develop new intrapsychic defences and coping mechanisms, and learn adaptive ways of dealing interpersonally.
STEP 11.
Concerns itself with a substantial amount of working-through and support necessary for solidification of gains.
STEP 12.
If all steps are actually achieved then follow up and Psychological support will be absolutely necessary and essential.
In Conclusion, my experience working with these type of clients very few will complete the 12 steps.
Usually full integration of the disowned parts of the self will be too hard to bear, and the loss and grief of the different parts of their self will be too overwhelming,for this full integration, in some cases hospitalisation is often needed.
For most MPD clients an understanding and a better way of communicating with the different parts of the self could be seen as Psychotherapeutic cure, certainly this option will enhance their life.
Bob Cooke 1994